5-Minute Trick Boosts Kid's Confidence
Asking your child to teach you something once a week can strengthen their communication skills, says expert Shara Arora
Asking your kid to teach you something once a week can have a profound impact on their confidence and communication skills. This simple 5-minute habit can change the dynamic between parent and child, allowing the child to become the expert and the parent to become a curious student.
Shara Arora, executive director of two Montessori schools in the Houston area, has seen this firsthand with her 9-year-old daughter. After attending a magic show, her daughter performed a magic trick where she made a spoon appear to float behind a towel. Instead of revealing the secret, Arora acted amazed and asked her daughter to explain how she did it. The result was a proud and confident child who felt valued and respected.
According to Alex Anderson-Kahl, a school psychologist and founder of Raise Strong, asking your kid to teach you something can be especially powerful for children who struggle in school. By giving them the opportunity to become the expert, parents can help boost their child's confidence and self-esteem.
This habit can also give parents a glimpse into parts of their child's world that they might otherwise miss. By taking the time to listen and learn from their child, parents can gain a deeper understanding of their child's interests and passions.
## Why it matters The stakes are high for children who struggle with confidence and communication skills. By incorporating this simple habit into their daily routine, parents can help their child develop essential life skills and build a stronger, more supportive relationship. As Arora notes, the real magic happens when a parent lets their child become the expert, and the result is a more confident and self-assured child.
## What happens next By making this 5-minute habit a regular part of their routine, parents can start to see a positive impact on their child's confidence and communication skills. Whether it's learning a new magic trick or exploring a new interest, the key is to create a safe and supportive environment where children feel valued and respected. By doing so, parents can help their child develop a stronger sense of self and a more positive outlook on life.
